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Wanting and Needing.
As I type this entry, a lot of things coming through my little brain. I can't really say if I want it or need it. But all I know is that a want/need something new with my life. W-O-R-K! as in gusto ko na talaga magtrabaho! nasaan ka na ba? ba't ba di ka pa dumadating. Ang tagal tagal na kitang hinihintay...namumuti na ang mga mata ko. Pluweeezzz! dumating ka na.
I feel I'm waiting for ages...sana dumating ka na, wag lang puro paramdam. Ang sakit eh.
Para naman atleast kahit papano meron ako makwento na may "sense" sa blog kong ito.
WORK WORK WORK! WHERE ARE YOU....
Sigh...
I think I'm chasing cars.
I'm currently listening to Natasha bedingfield's version of "Chasing Cars". I can definitely relate to this song as in a few hours I'll be off to Manila leaving hubby alone here in Singapore. :( I'm a bit sad that we will be a part in a few weeks...
This song speaks a lot about what I'm feeling right now. I am chasing cars, chasing time, chasing change and chasing life! I'm in a rollercoaster ride in terms of my career path. I am lost. :(
Enough about my sadness and rant.
On a lighter note. I'm happy that I'll be seeing my son later night. I miss you "bulilit ko!". Mommy's coming home. Hug you tight and kisses all over you when I get back from Daddy! :)
Fuck you!
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In other news...
I hope my stars will align soon or else I might fall into pieces and won't able to get back. Sigh...life's so hard! Lord Please help! :(
Signing on...
It feels weird to blog again. I have forgotten how to use this blogger. How do you edit your post? need help here! :(
Anyhow, I just turned 27 last July. Celebrated it for first time with my husband. Ayan tumanda na naman ako ng isang taon. 3 years na lang malapit na ako sumapit ng 30! But for now, I will enjoy being 27, and having a 1 year old baby soon! And on August 15, hubby will be celebrating his birthday. Hmm..ano kayang magandang suprise gift. Yung mura lang kasi tight ang budget. Let me know guys if you have suggestions. Naubusan na ata ako ng mga ideas eh.
Last Sunday, we celebrated the National Day here in Singapore. In the morning, hubby and I went to hear mass afterwards we went marketing. Kailangan na namin mag grocery at ubos na ang pagkain namin. Went home around 1pm without eating breakfast and lunch. So hubs went to cook our super late lunch while I folded all our clothes. Buhay misis talaga! minus the baby. Iniwan ko na muna si bulilit sa Pinas. As I needed to look for a new job here. Hay, sana makahanap na ako ng work. I miss working na talaga. Sobra. After eating lunch. We settled to watch the National Day celebration on TV. It was a nice experience to have. Seeing all Singaporeans united and proud to their country.
Yesterday, I cooked our merienda. Turon! Then settled for a movie marathon. A lazy monday with hubby. :) Hubs is very pleased that he was able to take a good rest for 3 days straight because of the Holiday. I'm glad we had a good 3 days bonding time. Sarap ng buhay! Thank God for all the blessings! Thank you po talaga. :)
Did I marry the right person?
I noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so I said, "It depends. Is that your husband?"
In all seriousness, she answered "How do you know?"
Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's weighing on your mind.
Here's the answer.
EVERY relationship has a cycle. In the beginning, you fell in love with your spouse. You anticipated their call, wanted their touch, and liked their idiosyncrasies.
Falling in love with your spouse wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called "falling" in love... because it's happening TO YOU.
People in love sometimes say, "I was swept of my feet." Think about the imagery of that expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something came along and happened TO YOU.
Falling in love is easy. It's a passive and spontaneous experience.
But after a few years of marriage, the euphoria of love fades. It's the natural cycle of EVERY relationship. Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts.
The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship, but if you think about your marriage, you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.
At this point, you and/or your spouse might start asking, "Did I marry the right person?" And as you and your spouse reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else. This is when marriages breakdown. People blame their spouse for their unhappiness and look outside their marriage for fulfillment.
Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is the most obvious. But sometimes people turn to work, church, a hobby, a friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances.
But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your marriage. It lies within it.
I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later. Because (think about this carefully):
THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN MARRIAGE IS NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON; IT'S LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND.
SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. It'll NEVER just happen to you. You can't "find" LASTING love. You have to "make" it day in and day out. That's why we have the expression "the labor of love." Because it takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it takes WISDOM. You have to know WHAT TO DO to make your marriage work.
Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your spouse) to succeed with your marriage.
Just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. Just as the right diet and exercise program makes you physically stronger, certain habits in your relationship WILL make your marriage stronger. It's a direct cause and effect. If you know and apply the laws, the results are predictable... you can "make" love.
Love in marriage is indeed a "decision"... not just a feeling.
For Moms.
image from google
by Del "Abe" Jones
She was there at the beginning
When the world was new to you -
She was there to turn to happy times
Those when, you were hurt or blue.
She was there to listen to your thoughts
And when you asked, to give advice -
She was there to tell you, "Those don't match!"
Or, "Hon, you sure look nice."
She was there with you at nighttime
To help you say your prayers _
She was there to tell you, "It's alright."
When you had a dream that scares.
She was there at the beginning
When the world was new to you -
She was there to turn to happy times
Those when, you were hurt or blue.
She was there to listen to your thoughts
And when you asked, to give advice -
She was there to tell you, "Those don't match!"
Or, "Hon, you sure look nice."
She was there with you at nighttime
To help you say your prayers _
She was there to tell you, "It's alright."
When you had a dream that scares.
She was there at morning time
To get you up and out of bed -
She was there when you didn't feel good (or did)
To say, "You'd best stay home, instead."
She was there when you were hungry
And when you had those dirty clothes -
She was there when you needed her
(How she knew? Only heaven knows.)
She was there at the beginning
And she'll be there your whole life through -
She'll be there in your mind and heart
Just like a mother is supposed to do.
(How she knew? Only heaven knows.)
She was there at the beginning
And she'll be there your whole life through -
She'll be there in your mind and heart
Just like a mother is supposed to do.
